Why you should plan some downtime into your December (and how to do it)

Looking at my December schedule I want to cry. We're reviewing no less than 8 pantos, visiting 4 Christmas events, organising a Christmas meal for 10 bloggers and another Christmas meal for 50 friends and family, it's my birthday, it's Jack's birthday, there are three different Christmas shows to watch at school, another nativity at church, school parties, Christmas parties....AND I'm nowhere near finished Christmas shopping or wrapping.

Ahhhhh! I'm not complaining as I love this time of year and adore Panto and Christmas days out so I am really looking forward to December.

I know it's the busiest month of the year though and I know I am very likely to have multiple meltdowns if I don't plan ahead, get organised and plan some chill time too.



I know I'm not alone and most parents will feel frazzled at this time of year so here are 5 ways to take some down time - I urge you to prioritise yourself this December and indulge in a few of these activities to help the festive season run as smoothly as possible.

1 - Christmas Wrapping Party


Oh my days I HATE wrapping gifts. It's so annoying, goes on forever, feels a little pointless at times and it hurts my back! Steve hates it even more than I do.

This year I'm going to try and make this chore as fun as possible and I'm heading over to my mams house for a Christmas Wrapping Party. We're going to order a takeaway, put some Christmas tunes on, open a bottle of Prosecco and wrap together.

I'm hoping this will make the chore a lot more fun and less stressful. Another idea would be to get together with a group of friends and turn it into a girls night - get the dads to take the kids out somewhere so you can all do it in peace.

2 - Watch your favourite Christmas movie alone



When the kids are at school and Steve is at work I'm going to switch off my laptop and phone, make myself a hot chocolate and snuggle up on the sofa to watch Love Actually in complete silence. Utter bliss!

3 - Watch a family Christmas movie 


Likewise, I think it's important for the kids to have some down time too and if we've had a busy weekend I'm planning on bringing our duvets downstairs and watching some of our festive favourites together with no distractions. I've already stocked up on popcorn in anticipation.

4 - Take a non-festive walk or trip to the beach


Sometimes at this time of year it can feel like your brain is going to explode with all things Christmas and I think it's nice to plan something with the family that is not festive at all.

There's an added pressure of attending a festive event I think and it's nice to enjoy a day out in December without this. Why not try one of these woodland walks or take a winter walk along the coast and stop for fish and chips - we did this recently at Blyth Beach and loved it.

There was no pressure, it was nice and simple and the fresh air did us the world of good.


5 -  Treat yourself to some expensive bath oil


I know, I know, you'll probably receive bath products for Christmas but honestly, you need them far more in December than January. Treat yourself to a proper bath when you can - bath oil, candles, relaxing music, face mask - the works. December is a month made for slow living and not the time to be taking quick showers every day.

I bet you're reading all of this nodding along and thinking YES - I should do this! Well, it's no good reading about it - you need to actually do it too.

Get your diaries and calendars out and find a time to schedule some down time - write it into your diaries so nothing gets booked in its place and when the day comes around, make sure you actually prioritise your downtime and make sure it doesn't get overlooked.


I'd love to hear your ideas for downtime in December too. 




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Wynyard Hall Christmas Shopping Event - One of the Best Christmas Fayres in North East England

*This is a collaborative post

This year, Wynyard Hall kindly invited us along to their Christmas Fayre. Taking place from 16-19 November, I'd heard good things from stallholders and attendees who mentioned that this was an event not to be missed. Unfortunately though, it was not meant to be and it turns out that the fayre was taking place on a weekend Steve was working - I think it's practically impossible to travel to Wynyard Hall from Northumberland via public transport so with we sadly had to decline. Luckily my friend Vicci was able to attend in my place and after reading her review I know this is going to be an event that I don't want to miss next year. Over to Vicci.....


 When an opportunity arose to review a Christmas fayre for North East Family Fun, I knew it was right up my street. As an avid food and craft fayre visitor generally, I jumped at the chance as I had not been to Wynyard Hall before and had been promised it was one of the best.  Well I was not disappointed and can recommend it within my top 3 Christmas fayres within the North east.  


As we drove into the estate of Wynyard Hall, this morning’s crisp clear sunny skies truly magnified the grandeur of the Hall, standing proud, within its surrounding beautiful picturesque landscape. Cars were streaming in, but with the well organised car parking attendants, it did not take us long to get parked up, to be welcomed by the friendly Darlington town crier and walk straight into the main marque. On entering, we were given a useful guide on where to find the stalls distributed around the estate and the name of every exhibitor here today. The main marque hosted a magnitude of Christmas décor and tree decorations, clothes and accessories, artwork, jewellery and children’s toys to name a few. The merchandise were of the highest quality, often unique with plenty of choice for those special Christmas gifts and treasures.


Walking around the bustling aisles, I was particularly encaptured by ‘Zibizi’, a baby gift store from Yarm, selling high quality functional wooden toys for all ages. I was like a child in a sweet shop, let alone my two young boys and the exhibitor was much obliging in letting them look at everything.
Once we had finished perusing the marque, we walked along an avenue of outside market stalls towards a trio of Christmas teepees.  Inside, we took an opportunity to have a rest on haystacks whilst purchasing a gorgeous hog roast bap and warm up by the firepits, whilst being entertained by some very talented live singers.


Afterwards, as we wandered down to the Hall itself, we were all mesmerised by stilt walkers and some Scottish dancing to a bagpipe. The boys were enthralled, particulary when swords were involved.
Walking through the Hall’s entrance, you were immediately drawn to the beautiful interior design. Together with the Christmas décor of the exhibitors, it created a festive atmosphere as each corridor lead to another room full of stalls. It made the experience of going shopping with two young boys more adventurous as it became a game of who could find another room to explore.
They were especially happy to find the conservatory, a large room of food stalls selling a variety of Meats, cheeses, Gins, Whiskies, chocolate and fudge  . . . . . . . . . . . .  I could go on another paragraph!


The boys thoroughly enjoyed trying delicious samples of a wide variety of foods they wouldn’t have normally have batted an eyelid over. In particular, Yockenthwaite Farm impressed us by explaining how oats were made from corn by allowing the boys to demonstrate this process and then giving them a sample of ginger flapjack and a nutty granola.  
My favourite had to be the Magnificant Marshmallow Company. They sold a selection of handmade marshmallows with flavoursome twists. The choice was tantalising ranging from orange choc chip, mint, various berries and gingerbread.  I treated myself to the 3 boxes for £10 deal but I assure you, choosing which flavours was the hardest task of the day. I just wanted them all!


After we had finished looking around the Christmas Fayre stalls, we took the opportunity to explore the grounds of the estate. We walked around the beautiful walled gardens with its fountains and intertwining paths. Near the glasshouse, a resident shop at the top of the gardens, we found some wicker reindeer, teepees and houses for the boys to play around in the leaves and have a chance to run off all their energy. 

Before heading back to the car, we walked past Wynyard on Ice, an outdoor ice rink situated within the parkland. Advance tickets at £8 a person, £9 on the door, for a 45 minute session, we found it bustling with eager adults and children trying to show  off their acquired skills in skating. Both my boys haven’t quite found their skating feet as yet, so they were more interested in the nearby children’s rides where they were quite happy to show me and my husband how fast they could go round in the teacups.

We left the Christmas fayre, laden with bags towards the car, chatting about what are best bits were of the morning. We all agreed we would be back again next year to do it all over again.



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The Reindeer Retreat Cafe & Feeding Reindeer at Azure Garden Centre, Cramlington


This post was originally published in 2017 and has been updated for 2019. 

Unfortunately, the reindeer will not be visiting in 2020. Fingers crossed they are back for 2021.

The Reindeer Retreat Cafe & Feeding Reindeer at Azure Garden Centre, Cramlington

If you're looking for more ideas for places to visit with kids this Christmas, check out my full Guide to Christmas Events in North East England for Kids here.
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Visiting Santa Claus and festive fun at intu Metrocentre - All you need to know & reviews



New for 2021! Santa is back at Metrocentre. 

This is what they have to say:  


This Christmas you can visit Santa in his brand-new Festive Forest experience! Santa's elves will guide you through the forest where you will get the chance to decorate Christmas cookies before you meet the big man himself.


We're releasing tickets to our newsletter subscribers before general release to the public. Complete the form to be added to our mailing list and we will send an email on 18th October with more details! Keep your eyes peeled for a festive email in your inbox. 


Click here to sign up to Metrocentre's mailing list. 


The rest of this post is from previous years and will give you a little idea of how events may look this year.........


Visiting Santa Claus at intu Metrocentre has been a bit of a tradition for us - it is where my parents used to take me after school as a child myself and I have many happy memories of taking H, H and J over the years.

This year, Santa's Grotto at intu Metrocentre has had a bit of a makeover and it looks better than ever!




Credit intu Metrocentre 
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Christmas Events & Ice Skating with Kids in Newcastle at Life Science Centre - All you need to know

Life Science Centre has confirmed that their ice rink will return this year. Opening on 13 November 2021 until 9 January 2022. This is a brilliant addition to Newcastle's festive scene and I am so pleased to see it return. 



The open air ice rink is open daily from 10am-5pm (recommended last entry 3pm). Ticket prices are as follows: 
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New Yorkshire Pudding Wraps at Toby Carvery - are they worth the hype?

*This is a collaborative post

Toby Carvery has launched a brand new menu to accompany their famous roasts. Options include new Yorkshire Pudding Wraps, tasters and shakes. We were invited along to our local Toby at Shiremoor to put the new menu through its paces. There are good points and bad points in this review so I'm going to split it into sections to make it easier to digest. 


Toby Tasters 

I usually can't resist a starter and at the moment you can order 3 Toby Tasters for £5. We were looking forward to trying the blue cheese fondue which is a new addition to this menu but unfortunately, it was unavailable. A few of the other tasters were also unavailable so we finally settled on pigs in blankets, smoked bacon belly bites in maple syrup and lamb koftas. They arrived in no time. 





You absolutely cannot go wrong with pigs in blankets so no complaints there. However the bacon bites were very overcooked - so dry with no hint of the maple syrup glaze left. I wouldn't order these again. The lamb koftas were really nice and succulent and as lamb isn't normally featured on the carvery, I'd recommend this dish if you fancy a nibble straight away. 3 dishes for £5 isn't going to break the bank and there was enough for us to share between the 5 of us. 

Yorkshire Pudding Wraps

Yorkshire Pudding Wraps are priced at a reasonable £5.99. Our first impressions were that they were huge. Steve went with the full feast - beef, turkey, pork, gammon and mustard mayo. This is Toby's signature Yorkie Wrap. Served with a jug of gravy and a side of potatoes you certainly get a lot of meal for your money. 




It just didn't hit the spot with Steve though. Despite the jug of gravy, it was pretty dry and there was far too much mustard in the mayo that it heavily overpowered this wrap. Steve loves a bit of mustard and if it was too strong for him that's saying something. The yorkshire pudding also went cold pretty quickly. Steve said if we return he thinks he'd order the regular carvery next time as he also missed loading his plate with vegetables. 

Regular carvery

I ordered a regular carvery as I remember I loved it last time. This time was a little disappointing though. The meat was fatty and the roast potatoes were so hard they were inedible. Roast potatoes make or break a carvery for me and this time, they weren't good! The meat was also very fatty and not as nice as I remember from last time. 


Not what I want my Roast Potato to look like


There were some redeeming points though - the yorkshire puddings, mashed potatoes, gravy and vegetables were all lovely. 

Children's menu

First of all, let's get the bad points of the way. There are three starters on the menu and Heinz Tomato Soup was not available. I understand that big brands have ordering systems but it's so annoying when an item you can buy from any supermarket (and there's a large one not too far away) are not available. So the kids skipped starters and headed straight for mains. 


Jack was super happy with his sausage carvery from the carvery counter. As you can help yourself to sides, his dish was very substantial and super value for money. He cleared his plate and enjoyed every last bite. The yorkshire pudding and peas were his favourite.

Harry and Heidi ordered pasta which they also enjoyed - no sign of the accompanying vegetable crudites that are described on the menu though.  At £4.59 I find this dish to be pretty expensive considering it's meat-free and not made from scratch but the kids enjoyed it. Last year the pasta was served with garlic bread as standard but this is no longer an option
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Our bill was £48.50 for the 5 of us. I have to say I find this to be pretty expensive if I'm honest and Toby Carvery isn't the cheap meal out I once remembered. I would make a direct comparison to The Stonehouse (Astley Arms) just along the coast to Toby Carvery and say that when you compare the two, The Stonehouse offers better value plus has a play park. 

I hate writing negative reviews here as I want my blog to be a place of inspiration and recommendations but I'm afraid I can't lie either and this time The Toby Carvery received the thumbs down from us. It certainly wasn't helped by the fact that one of the chefs and waitresses decided to chat about their Friday night conquests over the gravy bowl as we were being served. 

I'd love to hear your recent experiences of visiting a Toby Carvery and if you've tried a Yorkshire Pudding Wrap - what did you think? 


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Puddle Ducks Swim Academy - Swimming Lessons in Killingworth & across North East England for Children aged 4-10 years

*This is a paid collaboration

If you'd mentioned the words 'Puddle Ducks' to me a few weeks ago, an image of babies and toddlers learning to swim with their parents/carers in a warm pool with games, splashing and fun would come to mind. I honestly had no idea they offered swimming sessions to older children too. Heidi and Jack were invited along to a beginner's session in Killingworth a few weeks ago to get the lowdown and we were actually very impressed. 



My history with swimming lessons is not the best to be honest. Personally it's not my favourite activity to do with the kids and when I do take them swimming, it's always reluctantly. I attended swimming lessons myself as a child and can swim and once I'm in the pool it's fine. The thought of it all just puts me off. I did take the kids swimming when they were younger but it wasn't exactly a regular thing. I signed my eldest Harry up to swimming lessons with our local council pool when he was 5/6 and it was a huge hassle. First of all, a bizarre signing up ritual meant you had to physically attend a signing up session at something like 7am on a Sunday morning and then you were allocated a class without any choice. Ours wasn't at a convenient time and we weren't allowed to miss a session which did not fit in with our lifestyle. I didn't think the tuition was the best either with a man barking orders from the side of a pool. Harry didn't really progress and it felt like a huge waste of money. He attended swimming lessons with school and although probably not the most confident, he can swim now and he has no fear of water as demonstrated by the numerous slides he tried when we visited a Water Park in Florida this year but I do think I could have done things differently. 



Because of my bad experience with Harry, putting Heidi and Jack through any kind of swimming lessons just didn't cross my mind. During our holiday this summer our hotel's swimming pool stayed open until midnight and the kids would spend the evening practising in here. Heidi managed to teach herself to swim a little without armbands and Jack did increase in confidence but still had a long way to go - he's not ready to leave the safety net of water wings behind just yet. 


When Puddle Ducks got in touch and offered Heidi and Jack the chance to put a Swim Academy lesson through it's paces I must admit I felt a little guilty - I think as parents many of us are guilty of providing the best of experiences to our first born and then kind of neglecting future children and not offering them the same opportunities.  I was so pleased that we were offered this opportunity and saw it as a chance to see if there was a better alternative to school/council lessons I was used to. 

Puddle Ducks Swim Academy in North East England - What to Expect from a Level One Session


First of all, I was amazed at how many pools across the North East offer swimming lessons with Puddle Ducks. There are actually 18 pools in total (check out the full list here). Our nearest pool was at Percy Hedley School in Killingworth. It's a lovely little pool which is privately hired for exclusive use during a Puddle Ducks session. It's a lovely temperature (35 degrees) with 11 family sized changing rooms and parents are allowed to sit on the bench poolside (you need to take your shoes off or wear the covers provided). The depth of the pool is 1.3 metres and the sessions include 2 teachers (who are in the pool with the kids) with a maximum of 8 children attending. As a little side note I love that the Puddle Ducks website provides extra info on their website such as the nearest cafe and play park. A lovely little touch I think. 


There is a session for all abilities (check out Percy Hedley's Puddle Ducks Timetable here) but as Heidi and Jack had not attended any lessons before and it was their first time, I decided to book them onto a Swim Academy Level One Session which started at 3:45pm on a Sunday. Percy Hedley has a large and free car park and we arrived 10 minutes before our lesson to get changed and then waited poolside for the session to begin. Swimming caps do need to be worn but these can be provided if necessary and children should bring their own goggles too (although again there are spares). I really appreciated Heidi and Jack being able to take part in the same session as it was a far better use of my time than having to attend twice. 



As soon as the session started I could tell that this was going to be a lot different from the council sessions I was used to. Here are a few points that really stood out: 

Fantastic Staff 

It was clear from the outset that the staff at Puddle Ducks are very well trained and have super high standards. There are two teachers and up to eight children and I liked that the staff addressed (and knew) every child by their name. I think the staff had just the right balance between firm and friendly. It's a difficult skill but the teachers were able to keep the children's attention, stop them from messing about and also fully engage them in their activities.

Best use of time 

Sessions are taught as one class and then individual skills are perfected in smaller groups with each teacher. Because each teacher only ever has up to four children in his/her care at one time, the classes are fast moving and children do not spend much time waiting. Every single opportunity is used to develop a skill, for example, once jumping in is perfected, children are encouraged to roll and swim back rather than just swim back. There's a clear curriculum and I'm confident that children will progress quickly because of this.

Staff in pool

Having the staff in the pool was a real plus point for me and definitely made all of the difference. Although I was poolside, I felt a lot more confident about my children being in the pool without a floatation device knowing that there were adults in there and it really helped with Jack's confidence too. I'm not sure he'd have swum to the opposite side of a pool on his back had an adult not been standing behind him the whole way. 

Fast development 

During our 30 minute session Heidi and Jack covered lots of skills from blowing bubbles to back stroke and rolling in the water. Jack isn't the most confident and still needed to hold the teacher's hand as he jumped in but she really helped to build his confidence and by the end of the session he was almost jumping in without her. If we visited again I'm sure he'd nail it. Some strokes and methods are taught using two pool noodles which is quickly reduced to one noodle and then no floatation devices if the child is ready. I honestly sat in shock as I watch Jack perfect a backward breaststroke - I didn't know he had it in him and I was super proud. Heidi was also properly swimming at the end of the session. She was already very borderline/was able to swim a bit on holiday but I don't think I'd witnessed her swim as far as she managed in this lesson. 


Kids enjoyed it

Finally, and probably most importantly, Heidi and Jack both thoroughly enjoyed their Puddle Ducks Swim Academy Session. They were beaming as they left the pool, full of confidence and it was just lovely to see. They really enjoyed themselves and want to go back so fingers crossed I can find room in our diaries to make this happen. 


Sessions last just 30 minutes but they are so jam-packed that it felt like it was longer. Heidi and Jack left the pool and begged us to go back next week. In all honesty, I wish I could take them back next week but our diary is so crazy with Christmas events that we'd miss so many sessions and it would be a waste at the moment. I have agreed to look at it again in January time though when my diary is a little quieter so watch this space. 

There's no denying that Puddle Ducks Academy is an investment - it's £17 per session and they are bookable in 8 lesson blocks via recurring payments (so for Heidi and Jack to join it would set me back £136 each). When you compare this to other local swimming sessions though it is very competitive and actually only a couple of £ more than what I paid for our council swimming lessons 6 years ago which were of a far inferior quality in all aspects. I also like that you are paying for sessions and not weeks so there is a degree of flexibility there which is fab for families like us who are likely to miss a week here and there. From my experience, when you book with Puddle Ducks, you really are booking the best and I am confident your child will make good progress and you won't be wasting your money. 

Puddle Ducks North East run so many sessions across the North East and it's impossible for me to let you know about them all. There's something for everyone from aqua natal to baby and toddler classes and then the Swim Academy which is suitable up to age 10. I would love to see Heidi and Jack progress through the academy right up to level 6 and gain their 100m badge. How cool would that be? 




Swimming is good for health, good for self-esteem and fun too. I would say if we found any faults with our experience with Puddle Ducks but in our experience, it was all very positive.


Have you tried Puddle Ducks before? Let me know if you'd recommend or fancy trying a session. Please direct any specific questions to newcastle@puddleducks.com , visit the Puddle Ducks Website here or call Puddle Ducks North East on 01661 824 191.




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